After glancing through this thread the last couple of days, all I've taken away is that the definition of 'success' is very subjective. There was a thread on KBoards quite a few months back where everyone was asked what they considered success. Most chose a liveable income over fame and fortune (less stress that way). Is a liveable income no longer possible? Is that the definition of success people keep assuming is impossible now?
On a related note, somebody above mentioned that £10,000 wasn't a liveable income. I could happily live off of that much a year (hence my comment about success having a subjective definition).
You could ask 100 people what they considered success and you would get 200 different answers.
Is a liveable income possible, the answer is yes but in any field you will have to work hard to get it. This applies rather you are a writer, musician or hvac guy/girl.
The big thing (problem) in the writing field is that some people think oh I can write a book, put it on Amazon and make a fortune with no other work involved. I do not think the world works that way.
Success is all in how you look at it. For some people, success might be the ability to pay the rent and buy diapers. For others it might be making $500 a day. For others that magically number might be a 1 million.
Some people think they need a partner to be successful, others don't.
Success depends solely on what a person thinks it is.
Although sometimes other people's perceptions are fun too. I am not a singer (although I did take 3 years of choir) but I was once offered a job as a lounge singer. It was not I was that good, it was solely that I was better than the other 2 I was singing with. So I guess I was a successful singer that night.