One of the recurring themes in the book is female human nature - especially that of young girls and their ability to be blinded by love. The men crassly manipulate woman based on girls' inability to think straight once they're in love with a soldier boy; they make foolish decisions and they change their opinions to match that of their beaux. But, are they behaving believably?
I've seen girls get all love struck - especially with their first loves. But, this book seems to kick it up a notch. Is it that the rigid separation of the genders helps foster their foolishness and allows it to grow? The older women all admit it's a problem and admit they did it as girls themselves, but is it something uncontrollable or is this an exaggeration of attitudes from a different era? The book itself was published in 1988 but the author was born in 1929. Is this simply a reflection of the Mid 20th century attitude towards women and especially girls?