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Does anyone actually go out and people watch?

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I've seen this mentioned a lot in books and such. Keep a writing journal, take it with you, write down observations about people. I can't count the number of times I've seen this advice given and I just don't see how it would be helpful... Maybe if you're looking for some throwaway characters to populate your story but apart from that, I just don't see this as useful advice.

Anyone care to change my mind? I'm surely doing it wrong.
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I never take notes, I just enjoy sitting in an outdoor Cafe (in Spain) and watching people busily moving about their lives. If you sit still long enough the characters that inspire you will walk right past your field of vision. Of course you need to people watch if you are character building in your books, I do mostly alien stuff so its a bit harder. Still, the coffee is great :D
It's helpful in creating physical descriptions of characters. I don't take notes, but I observe body shapes, clothing, hair, manner of walking, things like that.
My mother liked to people watch, and for her it was not a passive activity. She would make up stories about the people based on subtle clues, and challenge us to do likewise.
TobiasRoote said:
I never take notes, I just enjoy sitting in an outdoor Cafe (in Spain) and watching people busily moving about their lives. If you sit still long enough the characters that inspire you will walk right past your field of vision. Of course you need to people watch if you are character building in your books, I do mostly alien stuff so its a bit harder. Still, the coffee is great :D
Oh, I don't know. When I am out at the malls or other places with large groups of people, I almost always see some I believe MUST be aliens. :eek:
What about creating back story about those observations? Why they act like it? What happened? What made them do that? That kind of backstory is what drives a lot of interest. Someone's deep secret, insecurities that make them work too much. Or overcompensate in other ways etc. These kind of things are what create character development and make it interesting to watch/read stories..
I don't deliberately set out to people-watch but I sometimes find myself in situations where people behave or speak so bizarrely that they are almost asking to be put in a novel! It's quite surprising how often this happens, usually at committee meetings or encounters at my day job.
I don't carry around paper and a pen for it, that'd start up the alarm bells.

But sometimes I see people at the store and make up stories about them in my head. When I'm not finding anyone interesting I'll just watch them and think about how I'd write what they were doing (which usually leads to me making up some story anyways).
I guess I don't fully understand the people watch trend.  Seems rude to me, not to mention that most people are too bulky to have strapped around your wrist.  Plus the looks you get when you try different ones on.  Geesh.

No thanks. 
I do it, but not intentionally and I certainly don't keep notes either.

I think it might simply be a trait that some people do naturally, whether they're a writer or not - I've been doing it to one extent or another for as long as I can remember and it's never something that I'm consciously looking for.  Sometimes I'll just catch sight of someone doing something completely innocuous on the train or a shop, and I'll immediately make a mental note about it.

I once spotted a woman reading on the train and something about the way she was bouncing her foot caught my attention... and a few months later she was in one of my stories!

Possibly it's something that authors who write character-based stories are more likely to do.
I do.

I'm always looking, listening, observing. I write stuff down in WorkFlowy, using my phone.

Last week, I was sitting outside an arena, waiting for my husband to walk back from the car (He left the Journey tickets in the visor.) There was a fabulous pink-and-gold sunset over the old Amtrack station, with a leafless tree silhouetted in the foreground. I took a picture, made a note about a setting in a local story.

From a group walking across the street, I heard a woman's voice say,"But where do you get that much chicken poop?" Hmnn, where do you?

A group of college boys passed where I was sitting. Every one of them scanned me, then looked away. (Female, blonde, old, pass. I could almost see the tickboxes being marked.) Interesting observation from one of my older protagonists, possibly.

I watched my husband walking back. He looked strong, confident. handsome. He would have caught my eye even if I didn't know him. Feelings jotted down for romance insight.

All of these things in the real world can populate my created worlds. Some of them can (and have) inspired stories. Some of them find their way into atmosphere, or setting or characters.

As much as I deeply desire to become a hermit and stop subjecting myself to people's judgement, pettiness, unreasonableness and randomness... without them, my writing would be a lot duller.
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Oh. I'm seeing a marketing idea here.

Print up business cards with a QR code for your website and the words "You might be a character in one of my books."

Hand them out to people.

They may be curious enough to buy your books to see if they are in there.

SCORE!

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My father and I both enjoy people watching. Easier to do when wearing sunglasses.  :p

But neither of us bother to take notes. No need.  ;D
I can't imagine not people watching when I'm out. I mean - that's what they're all there for, isn't it - to be watched and speculated over and eavesdropped on? No? Ooh. I've been doing that wrong then...
I love people watching. Human interactions fascinate me.... from a distance lol. I don't write anything down; just try and absorb the experience.

I'm always trying to avoid judging people so I think it's almost a way to find empathy for them or a common ground.

There was a really odd trio that caught my eye last week in a local restaurant. There was a very old, frail woman with a walker, a patient middle aged woman and another VERY impatient middle aged woman. It was the impatient one who was most interesting. She kept her arms across her chest and a scowl on her face the whole time and kept glaring at the older lady as if she wanted to lunge across the table at her. She wore pants that were about four inches too short and a large pink bow in her hair. She kept rolling her eyes and sighing dramatically whenever the older lady moved too slowly but she never said a word and didn't eat or drink anything. I had alllllll sorts of interesting theories about that one ha ha.  :D
AshRonin said:
I've seen this mentioned a lot in books and such. Keep a writing journal, take it with you, write down observations about people. I can't count the number of times I've seen this advice given and I just don't see how it would be helpful... Maybe if you're looking for some throwaway characters to populate your story but apart from that, I just don't see this as useful advice.

Anyone care to change my mind? I'm surely doing it wrong.
Because writing realistic people is one of the things many writers--especially new and inexperienced writers--don't have a good grasp on yet. If you can't imagine realistic people in the most mundane sense, then how can you expect to write them in exceptional, abnormal, or just plain dangerous situations? It's a good starting place, a way to reconnect with the 'world' you belong in so you can better understand the world you want to create.

Or, at least, that's what I think. I'd rather watch people than interact with them, though. ;)

edited: internal grammar police arrested me :(
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Mystery/thriller writer Elmore "Dutch" Leonard (3:10 To Yuma, Glitz, Get Shorty) was noted for his realism and strong dialogue. He picked up his unusual characters and plot lines by going to Night Court hearings.
Stephen King called him "the great American writer"
I don't, but that's because I know how bloody irritating it is to have people staring at you. If anyone sat jotting down notes while staring in my direction, my paranoia would explode. I couldn't imagine listening in on other people's conversations, either. I guess I live more in my head, satisfied with my own imagination so I rarely notice people around me.

So you are all either stalkers with boundary issues, or I'm an introverted self-obsessed egomaniac.  ::)
I'd people watch more often if busy places (and the possibility of others watching me) didn't make me so uncomfortable. That said, I tend to do it instinctively when I'm out so long as it's a good environment, but I've never tried to make a story centered around them or anything. I think the most interesting part of people watching is to get the details you otherwise would have had to imagine.

What kind of quirks do people have? What other gestures do they use? There's more than just tapping your foot or twirling your hair when bored. There's more than waving your hands around like an Italian when you're excited. Watching others gives you greater insight into that. How do people interact? You'll never fully understand how all people talk to one another even with those kinds of observations, but you can get some greater insight into the way tone and content change based on who the speaker is directing their conversation towards and who the speaker is in the first place (i.e., variances of spoken respect between different races and ages). What do they talk about? You may never imagine talking about your favorite erotica loudly in a restaurant, but more people than you think may do so. Others may discuss the politics of Nazism or their nephew's arrest. Others may not talk at all even with a full family there. How do they react to little things? Maybe a waitress spilled the drink. One man may offer to clean it up while some old woman may start screaming at her insisting their check is paid for; you'd be surprised how different reactions are than what you'd expect based on their appearances.

Many of the things you think are socially unacceptable will turn out to be common while things you believe are common courtesy are ignored. It makes it both interesting and insightful to listen in and watch others in a non-creepy, non-intrusive way. If not as a writing resource, it's fun to see how different other people are from yourself as well as to judge where your own morals line up compared to actual people. I've gotten a lot of inspiration for the smaller details of my characters from things like this.

Finding really cool people is also a great result of people watching. There's this lanky old man in our area who I've spotted a few times in my ventures whose story I just want to know incredibly bad. He's got this long gray hair back in a pony tail, chewed up clothes, a dirty backpack, and moves only by bicycle. The way he moves is so calm and confident that it's almost hard /not/ to watch (and harder to interrupt, partly why I haven't spoken with him yet). There are also others who blend very well into the background but are actually very interesting on closer observation. You'd think a woman in a giant bird hat would stand out, but some people just have such a lack of presence that you don't even notice them unless you're people watching.

tl;dr: People are weird.
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Katharina said:
So you are all either stalkers with boundary issues, or I'm an introverted self-obsessed egomaniac. ::)
Yes.
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