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·A lot of people talk about their success here. About their loads of sales. I'm pleased about this, as it has shown me it's possible to earn a real wage as an indie writer, and gives me a goal to reach for.
But I wish it was clearer that having loads of sales is NOT normal. That it's the minority of writers who sell hundreds or thousands of books a month. Again, I'm pleased that the people who are this successful mention it, but I get worried that people will think this is NORMAL, and look down on themselves for selling less than that.
I used to sell barely anything and am doing better now, but I'm nowhere near as successful as those who sell hundreds or thousands a month. And that's okay. I do get swept up in all the stories of success and start to feel a burden on myself, like I'm not selling like them so I must be doing something wrong. But I work hard, and try, and what else can I do? You can't do better than your best. All you can do is try, and if what you achieve isn't the same as someone else, that's fine. You can only do what you can do.
Seriously, it's NOT NORMAL to sell loads, so for those of us who sell a few books a day, or a week, or a month, don't stress. We're in the MAJORITY, it's just that no one's really going to post, "Hey I sold two books this month! Woohoo!" Of course you're likely to post about success, not when things are normal and ordinary. But not selling much IS normal and ordinary. It doesn't mean your books aren't good. Sure, maybe you need to do more to succeed. But these things happen over time, usually. Hell, if you sell one book a month for ages, this happens. You're not alone. You're not even remotely alone.
Those with big success? Great. Good on them. I value their contribution and hope to be like them one day. I hear their stories and think, "That could be me!" I could hopefully earn a real living from this eventually.
But for now I'll try and remember that I'm doing okay, I'm doing my best, and I'm doing the same as most indie writers. Some do better. But most of us are in the same boat. The boat isn't sinking. It just hasn't reached the shore yet.
But I wish it was clearer that having loads of sales is NOT normal. That it's the minority of writers who sell hundreds or thousands of books a month. Again, I'm pleased that the people who are this successful mention it, but I get worried that people will think this is NORMAL, and look down on themselves for selling less than that.
I used to sell barely anything and am doing better now, but I'm nowhere near as successful as those who sell hundreds or thousands a month. And that's okay. I do get swept up in all the stories of success and start to feel a burden on myself, like I'm not selling like them so I must be doing something wrong. But I work hard, and try, and what else can I do? You can't do better than your best. All you can do is try, and if what you achieve isn't the same as someone else, that's fine. You can only do what you can do.
Seriously, it's NOT NORMAL to sell loads, so for those of us who sell a few books a day, or a week, or a month, don't stress. We're in the MAJORITY, it's just that no one's really going to post, "Hey I sold two books this month! Woohoo!" Of course you're likely to post about success, not when things are normal and ordinary. But not selling much IS normal and ordinary. It doesn't mean your books aren't good. Sure, maybe you need to do more to succeed. But these things happen over time, usually. Hell, if you sell one book a month for ages, this happens. You're not alone. You're not even remotely alone.
Those with big success? Great. Good on them. I value their contribution and hope to be like them one day. I hear their stories and think, "That could be me!" I could hopefully earn a real living from this eventually.
But for now I'll try and remember that I'm doing okay, I'm doing my best, and I'm doing the same as most indie writers. Some do better. But most of us are in the same boat. The boat isn't sinking. It just hasn't reached the shore yet.