[Thumper]

I never expect to get money back...when they offer, I ask them to pay it forward. Drop it in a red kettle at the holidays, give a few bucks to someone on a street corner with a sign. That saves me any disappointment, and who knows? Maybe people really do pay it forward. I get jabbed at a lot from friends with "you know it's going for booze or drugs." But ya know what? Doesn't matter. That lady may have used the $18 for something else, but YOU know why you gave it, and in the end that's all that matters. If she pays it back, sweet