People really think publishing a book will make them happy? 
I think publishing a book will make me money.

I think publishing a book will make me money.
The issue, I think, is whether we're giving ourselves permission to be miserable in the present while we wait for some future magical moment to transform us into something else. As I commented on the article, as a psychologist, I believe happiness is too important to postpone or allow outside forces to control.Doug Lance said:I think publishing a book will make me happy.
Some people really think that being successful at what they love will make them happy.Doug Lance said:People really think publishing a book will make them happy?
I think publishing a book will make me money.
Bullc**p is all I can say. I don't look at life from her perspective at all. I am always happy as a rule as long as I have a roof over my head and enough money to buy bread. I work on my darlings, and then send them out. If I make some sales, all well and good; if not, I try harder next time. I have some good friends and enough to get by. What more can one want from life? And I can write.Keira Lea said:The Biggest Lie in Publishing History is the title of a blog post by Michelle Davidson Argyle. It's a catchy title, but Michelle's topic is probably not what you expect. No matter where you are in your publishing journey, I think you'll relate to what Michelle says.
http://theinnocentflower.blogspot.com/2011/06/biggest-lie-in-publishing-history.html
There's nothing wrong with my sanity. My characters tell me every night just how sane I am.LiteraryGrrrl said:I remember learning about an interesting experiment in an undergrad psychology course.
Someone tallied the frequencies of mental illness (specifically depression and bipolar disorder) and drug and alcohol abuse among various artsy-types.
It was writers vs. visual artists (painters, etc.) vs. dramatic artists (actors, etc.).
Guess which group had the highest incidents of EVERYTHING? Yep! The writers.
Shana
I've certainly heard nothing of the sort either. My heart broke when I read the blog post but the notion is subjective and happiness should never be dependent on any one factor (of course, easier said than done). I have friends ranging from broke as hell to an actual billionaire, unemployed to working a dream job, etc... and all can tell you that happiness is something you develop and nurture without the influence of external events if you have any hopes of it lasting, as JR said.JRTomlin said:It seems to me that she is confusing her terms. In order for it to be a lie, someone has to have told her that was the truth.
Has anyone ever told you any of those things? They haven't me.
I would say that she had deluded herself into thinking that. She's not alone, mind you, and it is rather sad. I've known people who thought they'd be happy when they finished university, got their medical practice, found a boyfriend, got married... Mostly, they were mistaken.
Happiness from an external event is at best short lived.
Excellent post. My bolds are what I like most about it.Joe Vasicek said:That was an interesting, emotionally honest blog post. Thanks for sharing.
I remember when I sold my first short story to a magazine. It was a small student run magazine at my university called Leading Edge, and while it was exciting to sign the contract and work with my editor friends on getting it ready to print, there was something...unexpectedly empty about holding the finished copy in my hand. Maybe it was a little too mundane, a little more immenant than I was expecting?
But a couple months later, when I was walking through the Provo Library, I checked out the periodicals and saw the magazine issue with my story in it...and this big grin spread across my face. Perhaps my expectations were a bit more tempered, so that seeing myself in print was a joyful thing, even if it was a semi-pro magazine with a circulation of maybe only 100.
And you know what? Since then, every time I make some kind of breakthrough, even if it's as little as making another sale on Amazon or getting a good review on someone's blog, I immediately want to stand up and do a happy dance. More often than not, I actually do.Perhaps that's one of the best things about the new world of publishing: all the old benchmarks are completely gone, so that instead of anxiously waiting for the Big Moment to arrive, you're more focused on the here and now, and any positive momentum (no matter how small) is something to relish.
IMO, no matter what you accomplish, there will always be a bigger mountain on the horizon. The trick is to enjoy the climb just as much as reaching the summit.![]()